embrace not fitting in…

I am choosing to embrace the fact that I have never and will never “fit in”.

So many years have been wasted to “fit in” and it just hasn’t worked.

I think I understand why now…

please…

Please

Please, please, please can I talk to someone on the phone who speaks English as their native language???

thoughts are things…

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Today is a good day to start really taking control of your thoughts.  Pay attention to what thoughts are rolling around in your mind at all times.  Start small and just notice for now.   That little “gremlin” who resides in your brain has ways of bringing up old subjects at any given time to throw you off you course.  You cannot let that happen.  Just notice what pops up in your subconscious today and challenge that thought with examples of things that you have done in your lifetime that have been positive and rewarding for you…let’s give it at try shall we?

Thought of the day…3/25/17

Validation…

We all need to get clear on what we think about each day.  If you are thinking the same thoughts all of the time you will not move forward.  Maybe you are afraid of moving forward…afraid of what you are leaving behind.  If it has been really good then you don’t want to leave that comfortable spot.  If it has’t been really good then you maybe feel that it is what you deserve.

It can be a catch 21 and keep you going around that same mountain for years.

 

Dealing with your aging parents…

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Growing up I never really thought of how it was going to be when my parents got older.  I saw my mother take care of her mom and uncle in our home, (I am not at that point yet) but it is different when you have the responsibility yourself.

It can be hard dealing with everyday issues and remembering how your parents used to handle the same things when they were younger.  Hearing is a big factor.  When you can’t hear well, (I am starting to experience that myself) things get confusing.

Our parents are all aging just as we are.  It is just as hard for them so it is important to be there for them just as we hope our children will be there for us…